You’re not ready for 1:1 coaching
and that’s completely okay.

Coaching isn’t cheap... and it shouldn’t be.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t start building real change right now.

The Defensiveness Workshop was built for men who want to turn things around without the price of private coaching.
It gives you the same core tools I use with my 1:1 clients just in a way that’s more accessible and affordable.

Start here. Learn the framework. See how it shifts your marriage and your mindset.

When the time’s right, you’ll already be miles ahead.

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If you've ever thought
"Defensiveness Is Killing Our Marriage"
Then this is THE workshop for you.

 

TIME to Kill Defensiveness

in 3 Simple Steps

A 90 minute workshop designed to be the only thing you'll ever need to eliminate defensiveness and enrich your marriage.

 

GET THE WORKSHOP HERE

Your payment today: €297 €67 (one-time)

Say Goodbye to The Fights That Make One of You Pack Your Suitcases and Threaten to Leave...

Okay take a moment to imagine a difficult conversation with your partner.

It could be forgetting house duties, changing schedules, needing more intimacy, troubles with the in-laws, or money conversations!

Most couples I speak to who hear these difficult topics mixed with the words "talk about them with my partner" ➡️ FREEZE! They experience that heavy PIT feeling in their stomach.

Look, every couple has a different DANGER topic, but most have the same pattern, defensiveness in themselves or their partner. This is KILLING the attraction, killing intimacy, killing connection, and quite honestly making you wonder if this is really the person you want to be with.

What if I told you YOUR MARRIAGE DIDN'T have to be this hard.

What if I told you that understanding and implementing just 3 SIMPLE STEPS could actually KILL DEFENSIVENESS once and for all.

 

I NEED THIS IN MY LIFE! ONLY €67

❌ YOU DO NOT WANT...

To get 5 years further down the line and realise that you’ve hurt each other so damn much that it’s too late to fix defensiveness.

To fight over and over again, hurting yourselves and (sorry to say this) your kids too.

To lose all hope of regaining intimacy and attraction because one or both of you didn’t just sort out ONE BEHAVIOUR in 3 simple steps.

To lose your partner completely, ending the relationship and everything you built together.

âś… YOU DO WANT...

To have a loving relationship where you two are a TEAM through and through.

To be able to speak about the hard things like a POWER COUPLE.

To be proud of your partner and love them more deeply than you ever have before.

To be exactly who you want to be in the relationship, without losing yourself in the process and without losing your partner.

"So tell me more about this workshop Alessandro"...


Well, I am going to take you through the 3 simple steps that kill defensiveness.

You’re going to find out where your defensiveness is coming from, with actionable ways to uncover it THAT ANYONE can use.

You’re going to learn how not to let your emotions lead your conversations (EVEN if you don’t feel them at all, or if you feel them too much).

You’re also going to learn the number one tactic that can make ANY topic feel fun, light, and easy to talk about.

Plus, I have a Q&A session with ACTUAL real-life examples sent in by my audience.

I’ve really put EVERYTHING into this workshop - everything my wife and I did to save our marriage, plus the experience I have as a men’s coach and men’s circle facilitator. I truly cannot wait to hear how this workshop saves your marriage :)

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Bartek

Working with Alessandro has been one of the most grounding and eye opening experiences of my life. I've gone through most of my life without ever really pausing to reflect on the deeper things, why I react the way I do, what I truly want, or what's holding me back. Just showing up and working with Alessandro has started to shift all of that. It's given me clarity, confidence, and the motivation to keep moving forward, both in my personal life and in rebuilding my career. 

Doug

As a naturally negative and sceptical person, I couldn't be happier and more surprised to have been proven wrong. Alessandro has really tapped into something here. I've been so intimidated by masculinity, spirituality because of the negative connotation and all the fluffy crystals and such. Now, I am surprised this isn't in schools! Men, you need this work, EVERYONE in your life will thank you!!!

Thijs

Alessandro has supported me to get a better understanding of what type of man I want to be. As a teenager I lost my dad, so my image of what a man or father was supposed to be was disturbed. Through working with Alessandro, I realised that I was still stuck in behaviour patterns from the past that held me back from becoming the man I want to be. If you are looking for a guide on your journey to become the best version of yourself, Alessandro is your man.